A Week of Holiday Wellness: How to Deal With Your Physical Manifestations of Holiday-Induced Anxiety – Jennifer Landis

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A Week of Holiday Wellness: How to Deal With Your Physical Manifestations of Holiday-Induced Anxiety – Jennifer Landis

Week of Holiday Wellness - Welcome from Terri Giuliano Long

Welcome to our Week of Holiday Wellness!

Writing the Christmas story I’ll share on Thursday, I thought about the ways memory shapes and defines our experiences of people and events. If memory shapes our perceptions of others, then our actions shape their perceptions as well. Asking questions about memory forces us to ask how we want to be remembered and, in a deeper sense, what kind of life we want to lead.

This week I am pleased and honored to host four wonderful writers and friends, each of whom, through his or her words and actions, leads a life informed by kindness and generosity of spirit. Over the coming days, they’ll offer their unique perspectives on wellness and wellbeing, and offer helpful advice for staying physically and emotionally healthy through the holiday season.

Please join the conversation – share your own tips and advice in the comments section! If a post moves you, please consider sharing with your family and friends. Thank you so much!

Week of Holiday Wellness - Holiday-Induced Anxiety by Jennifer Landis

Today, I’m excited to host the lovely and talented Jennifer Landis, author of the terrific blog, Mindfulness Mama. If you’ve ever read Jennifer’s posts, here or on her blog, you know her advice to be insightful, centered, and smart. Today Jennifer talks about ways of dealing with anxiety, a problem that plagues many of us today, particularly at this busy time of year.

Enjoy!

How to Deal With Your Physical Manifestations of Holiday-Induced Anxiety

by Jennifer Landis

The holidays are nearly upon us, and with them come good food, good company and occasionally gifts.

But let’s face it — the holidays are stressful. We find ourselves obligated to attend parties with people we don’t know or don’t enjoy talking to, our to-do lists are spiraling out of control — and, if you’ve got kids, you’ve got the added stress of picking out the perfect gifts for them to open on Christmas morning. Out of nowhere, you find yourself hiding in the back room because you’re shaking and you can’t breathe.

Anxiety is something you think of as being all in your head, but it can manifest in several physical symptoms, as well—shaking or an inability to breathe, for example. Many of these symptoms can feel extreme, which compounds your anxiety and makes it more difficult to handle. How can you recognize — and learn to deal with — the physical manifestations of your anxiety?

What Are the Common Physical Manifestations of Anxiety?

Holiday-Induced AnxietyThe physical symptoms of anxiety can come in a variety of forms, and may vary greatly for different people. It’s easy to mistake these symptoms for other conditions — chest pain or a pounding heart may have you scurrying to the ER as you worry about a heart attack — but in general, they are not life-threatening.

You may have experienced these before, but the most common physical symptoms of anxiety often include:

  • Dizziness, lightheadedness or feeling faint
  • Grinding or clenching your teeth
  • Shortness of breath, or being unable to catch your breath — even if there’s more than enough air in the room, you feel like you can’t breathe
  • Trembling or shaking uncontrollably
  • Pounding heart or even heart palpitations — this symptom can also manifest as chest pain or the feeling of a knot in your chest
  • Nausea or vomiting
  • Hot or cold flashes and/or excessive perspiration

More extreme symptoms can range anywhere from itching and headaches to vertigo and full-blown depersonalization. Unfortunately, there’s no way to know how anxiety is going to affect you until the symptoms start to manifest. Once they have, though, how can you deal with them?

Learn Breath Control

The first thing you need to do when you feel your symptoms coming on is to focus on your breathing.

Anxiety relief - breath controlBy slowing down your breathing, you can help the rest of your body feel calmer and more relaxed. As your breathing slows, your blood pressure and heart rate will both normalize, your oxygen consumption will decrease and you will start to calm down.

Start by taking a long, slow breath in through your nose. Hold that breath for a count of three, and then exhale slowly. Mindfulness, or the practice of being aware of the present moment, can also be useful in these cases. You focus on the immediacy of the things you can manage, while ignoring things in the past or future that are outside your control.

Become More Active

We should all strive to become as active as possible, but one of the many benefits of a regular exercise regimen is that it helps mitigate the physical symptoms of anxiety. Exercise releases endorphins, which help naturally elevate your mood. It also helps tire your muscles out, which can make physical anxiety symptoms less intense. Plus, regular exercise keeps the holiday calories from adding up too quickly — you’ll feel less guilty about enjoying your favorite pie or holiday fare!

Anxiety Relief - WalkingOf course, during the holidays, we’re all buried in preparations — and when we run out of time, exercise is often the first thing to go. However, a workout doesn’t have to be long to have benefits.

If you’re not an active individual, start small by taking a walk around your neighborhood. Some studies have shown a brisk 10-minute walk can be just as effective for anxiety and other mental health concerns as a vigorous 45-minute workout. Don’t work out until you hurt yourself — just take some steps to start getting more active.

You don’t need to invest in an expensive fitness tracker, but a fitness app can help keep you focused on your goals. Many apps use your phone’s GPS and built-in hardware to keep track of your steps, calculate how far you’ve walked and determine how many calories you’ve burned with your activity. Plus, if you bring your phone along, you can listen to your favorite music, audiobooks or podcasts while you exercise.

Reduce Your Stress

Stress is an often unavoidable part of life, but excessive stresses can also make your anxiety harder to manage. You can, however, take some steps to reduce the stress you can control.

Holiday-Induced Anxiety and StressFirst, avoid toxic people and those who bring unneeded stress into your life. You don’t need to feel bad for cutting these people out of your life – or forgoing holiday visits – the additional stress they cause makes your anxiety worse.

Additionally, try to avoid other stressors such as scary movies, music that triggers your anxiety or anything else—like binge-eating or drinking too much—that causes anxiety symptoms.

During the holidays, we also tend to create our own stress. Between events and commitments, try to leave downtime to rest and relax. Let go of any feelings of inadequacy that make you feel anxious or small. Remember: the picture-perfect families in holiday ads aren’t real: they’re the brainchild of some marketing committee. Striving for perfection is an impossible task—no one and no family is perfect—and only makes us more anxious. By eliminating some of these stresses, you can reduce your chance of anxiety escalating during the holidays.

Some stressors are often entirely unavoidable — such as those related to work or school, or when there are serious health issues in our own lives or with people we love — but if you take steps to reduce the stressors you can control, the ones that are out of your control have less of an impact.

Remember, You Are Not Alone

Anxiety is terrifying. You might think you’re the only one suffering this way, and feel as if you have nowhere to turn for help, but it’s important to keep this in mind — you are not alone. An estimated 40 million people suffer from some form of anxiety in the United States, and everyone experiences it a little differently.

Holiday anxiety is more common than you might think. You can control many of the symptoms with lifestyle changes like the ones we listed above, but if you feel like your anxiety is overwhelming you, don’t hesitate to make an appointment with your doctor. He or she might be able to recommend new techniques to help you deal with your anxiety symptoms.

You don’t need to go through this alone. If you need help, there are an enormous number of resources at your disposal to help you manage your symptoms, and live a healthy, productive life – and enjoy a happy, less stress-filled holiday season!

***Stop by tomorrow for David Brown’s post, Running Toward Wellbeing.***

Week of Holiday Wellness - More About Jennifer Landis

Jennifer LandisJennifer Landis is a mom, wife, and healthy living blogger at Mindfulness Mama. She loves yoga, distance running, peanut butter, and spending the small amount of free time she has watching Netflix with her husband.

Follow her on Twitter: @JenniferELandis.

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78 Comments

  1. Elena December 11, 2017 at 7:38 pm - Reply

    I do yoga to manage holiday stress

  2. Barbara Montag December 11, 2017 at 7:54 pm - Reply

    I would enjoy trying yoga classes to help with holiday stress.
    Thank you.

  3. Linda Kish December 11, 2017 at 9:38 pm - Reply

    I really don’t have a lot of holiday stress. There’s only my son, his wife and me. I don’t have a lot of money left after bills so, I don’t do much. That’s just the way it is. I give them things throughout the year when I can.

    • Terri Giuliano Long December 13, 2017 at 8:01 am - Reply

      Sometimes the things we can do mean more – even if they are small things – than any big gesture could, Linda. I’m sure your son and his wife very much appreciate what you do.

  4. texasinak December 11, 2017 at 10:36 pm - Reply

    I manage stress by working out, and finding enjoyable ways to incorporate activity and christmas traditions like taking a walk to see the christmas lights.

  5. Jaelle Kaylor December 12, 2017 at 1:17 am - Reply

    I use serenity essential oil from doterra to help with stress and anxiety. I don’t sell doterra i just really like the serenity oil :)

  6. Gwendolyn Jordan December 12, 2017 at 2:30 am - Reply

    Strong cup of coffee

  7. MelodyJ December 12, 2017 at 5:48 am - Reply

    I read magazines.

  8. Liza Plaisted December 12, 2017 at 7:35 am - Reply

    i go to counseling and she gives me a tool box but my fav way to distress is music

    • Terri Giuliano Long December 13, 2017 at 8:05 am - Reply

      I love music too, Liza. It’s a great thing to have in your wellbeing toolbox!

  9. Katherines Corner December 12, 2017 at 8:56 am - Reply

    I meditate and a cup of tea never hurts ( wink)

  10. Indrani Biswas December 12, 2017 at 11:22 am - Reply

    I would gift my parents and spend a lot of time with them which is what matters the most !

  11. Toni Sprouse December 12, 2017 at 12:29 pm - Reply

    I handle stress by spending my early morning hours doing devotionals, as well as by taking long hot baths and hoarding good books and coffee <3.

  12. Rajee Pandi December 12, 2017 at 1:11 pm - Reply

    Meditate and reading books

  13. Rebecca Young December 12, 2017 at 1:59 pm - Reply

    I’d like to get a massage to help with stress over Christmas, I might have a spa day with my sister

  14. DeeAnn December 12, 2017 at 2:11 pm - Reply

    Managing stress is important to me. I set aside some ME time to relax, usually with a hot cup of tea and a good book to take me away from reality, if only for a short time. This has worked for many years and I will continue doing it.

  15. Elizabeth Robinson December 12, 2017 at 4:01 pm - Reply

    I manage stress by curling up with a good book.

  16. Onyinye Elochukwu December 12, 2017 at 4:04 pm - Reply

    I always love to practice my yoga. It helps me relax and unwind.

  17. amweeks December 12, 2017 at 5:15 pm - Reply

    To avoid stress, I just really try to keep it all in perspective. I remind myself that everything does NOT need to be perfect and that what gets done, gets done…and what doesn’t, doesn’t. I make lists of what I absolutely HAVE to do to keep myself on track. A little each day instead of everything all at once.

    • Terri Giuliano Long December 13, 2017 at 8:09 am - Reply

      This is a wonderful approach to managing your self-care and limiting your stress!

  18. Bernice Mattila-Garcia December 12, 2017 at 6:21 pm - Reply

    I listen to music, bundle up for a walk through the park, realize it’s not that important and let it go.

    • Terri Giuliano Long December 13, 2017 at 8:09 am - Reply

      I love this approach, Bernice. It’s not always easy to let go, but when we can it’s so much better for us!

  19. Cheryl B December 12, 2017 at 7:54 pm - Reply

    To manage stress, I like to take walks to unwind and relax.

  20. Cat C. December 12, 2017 at 10:08 pm - Reply

    I workout in the gym to relieve streas

  21. Tara Christine Enright December 12, 2017 at 11:11 pm - Reply

    Something different I am trying is shopping online, but not sure if it’ll be delivered by the 23rd, but hoping.

  22. Kimberly Frazee December 13, 2017 at 4:50 am - Reply

    I volunteer at the school as much as I can. All the schools could use a hand at volunteering to help like read to them a paragraph then have them read it back to you. help with certain ones with letters numbers ect…

  23. Crystal Whitlow December 13, 2017 at 5:23 pm - Reply

    What are some good activities to do with my in-laws?

    • Terri Giuliano Long December 14, 2017 at 5:03 am - Reply

      Hi Crystal, depending on how active your in-laws are, I always find a walk a wonderful way to enjoy time together, particularly if they’re visiting and you can show them some new sights along the way!

  24. Jessica Keeton December 13, 2017 at 11:13 pm - Reply

    Something I currently do to deal with stress is mindful breathing – 5 slow deep breaths. I remember thinking it would do nothing for me the first few times I did it, but now it’s become apart of my daily routine. I also do yoga and baby yoga with my newborn and it truly makes a difference in our day.

    • Terri Giuliano Long December 14, 2017 at 5:01 am - Reply

      Baby yoga sounds amazing, Jessica! What a wonderful thing to do with your newborn!

  25. MargaretAnn Rice December 14, 2017 at 8:17 am - Reply

    I take a little time each day to meditate, it doesn’t take long but it certainly helps.

  26. Lisa Kerr December 14, 2017 at 8:38 am - Reply

    I like to spend time with my animals to release some stress! My cats and dog always make me feel better!

  27. Alyssa Emmett December 14, 2017 at 9:31 am - Reply

    I love to sit by the fireplace and watch a movie or a TV show.

  28. Natalie December 14, 2017 at 4:54 pm - Reply

    I manage holiday stress by going to the gym every morning to exercise.

  29. Debbie P December 14, 2017 at 8:20 pm - Reply

    Red wine is great for my holiday stress!

  30. Cheryl Chervitz December 14, 2017 at 8:25 pm - Reply

    Make time for yourself. You have to be happy and healthy to keep up.

  31. Wanda B December 15, 2017 at 9:12 pm - Reply

    I’d like to try some new recipes this holiday season.

  32. latoya December 16, 2017 at 12:43 am - Reply

    I’ll be honest…I don’t really get stressed around the holidays, but one things that helps me relax generally is using lavender in my essential oil diffuser in the mornings and evenings…the scent is so calming.

  33. James Robert December 16, 2017 at 5:19 am - Reply

    I will g on my phone and play a game of boom beach or have me a drink to relax if I get too upset.

  34. Jessica Holt December 16, 2017 at 7:56 am - Reply

    My stress reliever for the holidays is a big glass of wine, and a warm spot to read!

  35. auntb7blog December 16, 2017 at 2:10 pm - Reply

    i GO SHOPPING

  36. bn100 December 16, 2017 at 4:24 pm - Reply

    exercise

  37. Kayte CookWatts December 16, 2017 at 5:46 pm - Reply

    Reminding myself that I can only control my reaction to things, not the situation itself. Also, remembering that perfection does not exist, it is not worth chasing.

  38. Lyz S December 17, 2017 at 9:50 am - Reply

    I try to avoid holiday stress by planning ahead-WAY ahead. I like to have everything planned out and ready to go at least two weeks in advance.

  39. lisagee1234 December 17, 2017 at 6:59 pm - Reply

    Meditation for me.

  40. Catherine Shaw December 18, 2017 at 8:37 am - Reply

    Over the years, I’ve learned take it easy this time of year. I don’t cook a big Xmas dinner, I go out! And keep the present giving to a bare minimum.

    • Terri Giuliano Long December 18, 2017 at 3:27 pm - Reply

      Love this approach, Catherine! If I didn’t love the cooking so much, I’d definitely consider it!

  41. hopewellslibraryoflife December 18, 2017 at 11:33 am - Reply

    We’re managing stress by skipping all but Christmas dinner. No big gifts–just a few “tokens”

    • Terri Giuliano Long December 18, 2017 at 3:26 pm - Reply

      That’s a fantastic idea! Christmas is wonderful but it can become so stressful.

  42. Donna K December 18, 2017 at 4:13 pm - Reply

    I try to get my mind off of whatever is stressing me by working all types of puzzles. This occupies my mind and steers it away from my stress.

  43. Kenia P December 19, 2017 at 12:48 am - Reply

    This year I started shopping early.

  44. sandra December 19, 2017 at 9:38 am - Reply

    i work out almost daily to manage stress year round

  45. Youssef December 23, 2017 at 3:35 pm - Reply

    i like this blog <3

  46. Marissa December 26, 2017 at 10:27 pm - Reply

    To relieve holiday stress I make the most of important family moments. I focus on what truly matters.

  47. John Leahy December 30, 2017 at 2:24 pm - Reply

    I make sure to keep up with my yoga practice to stay sane over the holidays!

  48. binabugged January 1, 2018 at 12:07 pm - Reply

    I read, and I read a lot, I had the whole week off this year for Christmas and I read 4 books, and not short books either. I managed to read well over 50 books this yr (my goodreads goal was 20) and that was quite the goal for me as in the summer months when my workplace wants me , I do up to 15hrs of OT per paychq

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  50. Angela Newsome January 9, 2018 at 11:04 pm - Reply

    I’ve been simplifying my life and it’s made it so much less stressful for me!

  51. Kimberly H January 10, 2018 at 7:37 am - Reply

    To manage holiday stress I just take a deep breath and tackle what needs to be done. It helps to plan ahead and stay organized too :)

  52. Zoey January 11, 2018 at 12:55 am - Reply

    I manage stress by keeping track of everything I need to get done in my planner.

  53. Nikolina84 January 12, 2018 at 7:01 am - Reply

    I cook and clean… Like from the manual… lol

  54. Madonna January 12, 2018 at 6:48 pm - Reply

    I relax with a cup of tea and a good book

  55. Megan A January 14, 2018 at 9:42 am - Reply

    I enjoy burning candles, watching the flame dance/flicker is relaxing to me

  56. Kim Henrichs January 14, 2018 at 9:57 am - Reply

    For next year I’m going to start shopping earlier!

  57. Patricia Green January 14, 2018 at 3:21 pm - Reply

    I knit. The constant clicking of the needles and repetitive movement is very calming to me.

  58. Lisa January 14, 2018 at 3:32 pm - Reply

    I try to get things done one day at a time and not let things pile up. This goes for year round, not just the holidays.

  59. Eileen Boyce January 14, 2018 at 6:14 pm - Reply

    I read Facebook and play internet games.

  60. Donna Porter January 14, 2018 at 6:20 pm - Reply

    I take a long hot bath. This gives me some relaxing time.

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